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一見すると、外側からは分からない「借金アリ/ナシ」問題。

軽くよぎる不安な気持ちは、当たっていることがあるかも知れません。

借金を抱えている男子には、分かりやすい特徴がいくつかありました。

刹那的な考え方をしている

『今この瞬間が楽しければいい』というタイプの人で、超刹那的思考の持ち主。

刹那的とは、あと先を考えず、今この瞬間だけを充実させて生きようとするさま。特に、一時的な享楽にふけるさま。

常に羽振りがいい

毎回デートする度に、必ず奢る。

貯金/貯蓄の話をしたがらない

そろそろ結婚を考える年頃なのに、相手とは貯金や貯蓄についての、真面目な話をしない(したがらない)。

マネー系の話を避けるかのように、別の話題にチェンジする。

見栄っ張りである

女子に出させるわけにはいかないと付き合う前から“完全奢り”をする。

女友達や後輩などにも、一銭も出させない。

カード主義である

一見すると、外側からは分からない「借金アリ/ナシ」問題。_e0199944_22164778.jpg


現金で払うのを1度も見たことがない。

何かに脅えている

いつも何かに追われているような素振りがみえて、あまり自分の家に帰らない。

これに似たような行動がみえる彼なら、ちょっと心配かも・・・・

# by hey_tokushima | 2014-09-11 22:18 | 言いたい放題

おかしいと感じた人は皆無か?

ここ・・・書いてたの忘れてた(爆)

というか、IDさえも思い浮かばなかった><

過去はさておいて、またボチボチ更新をしていこうと考えてます。

メディアやブロガーさん達は例の「野次」について批判が9割をこえているけれど、僕はへそ曲がりなので、はいそうですか。とは納得ができていない。

男女平等、男女雇用均等法などなど、男尊女卑は存在していないから。

「結婚しろ」「子供を生め」がセクハラ、パワハラに該当するならば、男性だって「いつ嫁さんもらうの」「再婚はいつ」と言われるのも似たようなものに思えるのだが。

都議や国会議員が議場で野次ったから大々的取り上げられたのか、自民党を貶める反日メディアの作戦なのかはわからないけどw

ともかく、野次られてなんぼの世界にいるんじゃありませんか。

野次の質も落ちたとはいえ、野次られた方の対応も大人げない。

こんな時に限って、「女性」を前面に出してものを言う。

まさに、鬼の首を取ったような騒ぎぶりだ。

どの局も、野次問題を大きく扱い騒ぎ煽る始末。

コメンテーターは風見鶏だからその場の空気に合わせて発言するしな。

議員の質も落ちたが、選んだのは我々有権者だってことも忘れてはならないけどねw

野次った側の議員も、メディアの圧力に負けて謝罪してるようでは、あてになりません。

よりよい国政を担う人材を有権者が選ばないと、税金だけとられてアホらしい。

とまぁ、人が言わないような事を書くから、僕の人格も疑われる訳だけど、本音のひとつやふたつ吐き出さないとフラストレーションがたまります(爆)

そういや、ここはつたない英文で以前は書いてたんだっけ(^^;)

ファンもいないことだし、また溜まったら吐き出しに書くwww

# by hey_tokushima | 2014-07-04 22:23 | 溜まったものは吐き出すに限る。

An old friend is again met in a class reunion!

Hello.
Or [ holding as the "class reunion" also in foreign countries / which will swelter ]?
The talk may also be straight. Since culture is different, is it severer than Japan?

Information of a class reunion is in a mailbox.

Since it is nostalgic, it is a circle to participation
If you meet a classmate, although recollections of those days will revive and it will talk in the mood of a student in spite of itself, when age is piled up, the consideration which subject also changes and is different from ancient times may sometimes be required.

Then, it is manners of a class reunion to like to know.

Subjects [ take care / on the point of the conversation of a class reunion / every generation ] are a "family" and "marriage."

It may be better for that this theme shakes conversation from itself to cut down, although which speaks about its thing is not cared about.

In the case of his twenties, it is a point which matrimonial existence worries.

Probably, it is as various as those who get married by his teens or his twenties, and those who have not done yet.

However, if it becomes after the 30th generation, married persons and persons with a child will increase in number suddenly, and, on the other hand, an unmarried person will come to the age which begins to be more conscious of marriage.

In inside, mate-hunting of those who are not carrying out well, and the person who did divorce may be.

It is safer for his 30's and his 40's to cut down especially matrimonial subject, since it can become the naive center of attention for some persons."

It is a talk of work or money which becomes the center of attention easily by reunion after a long time as well as marriage.

Although even his twenties can be said, I think that there are some persons whom a partner's social standing and income worry as he reaches his 30's and his 40's.

Although what it is heard straight how much has worked" is NG, of course, does it "live [ in what kind of place ]"? "It is an apartment?

it is a house -- cautions are required also when hearing ?" etc. -- it meets.

Even if straight here, it may be thought that it is inquired into a life level depending on how to receive a partner.

It says comparing the classmate who has participated as to avoid is more nearly better.
It seems that the topic relevant to money is delicate after all.

The point which should take care when a woman talks with a man is here.

NG also still talks with "thinking that he was the boy ", he having been precocious" or "? which did not become great" in the mood of a student.

An adult also with the sufficient partner also in the mood of a student.
Condescendingly, a male will also be inwardly offended.

moreover -- the appearance -- "whether it grew fat" and "(seeing scalp which became thin) head -- it is not dangerous -- calling it ?" etc. may also wound a delicate man -- "
conversely, women -- "-- it is at that time -- not talking with ?" etc. by a past form, either -- a point.

or [ making the slot on the partner, since ", as for no now, there is " may be tacitly said with it being a past form ].

Is it, when good [ to warn against saying straight comment ]?
It is care not only to language but to expression.

It is concluded that not only the contents of conversation but a little expression is unexpected.

For example, when the partner is regrettable compared with that time, "whether whether he became old from the front grew fat" should be careful for the voice of the heart not to appear in a face.

a traditional friend wants to understand a certain amount of TPO of an adult, and to enjoy a class reunion, although he would like to rise without constraint until he results in how to choose subject or a dress -- coming out -- the shin.

# by hey_tokushima | 2012-08-23 12:29

A lower half of the body is a beast.

Hello.

Although it is AKB48 which has taken the world by storm as an "idol" who can go to meet, it comes here, male relations are exposed to next the next, and popularity is also diving.

Because the ban on love was a group of the catchphrase, if the photograph of a makeup love with him and the photograph a fan will separate.

AKB48 forcible graduation festival The next of devil restructuring studies abroad with formation of a cabinet out of desperation?

A lower half of the body is a beast. _e0199944_14121938.jpg
A lower half of the body is a beast. _e0199944_1412397.jpg



[ "AKB is not suited" ]

Although 16 persons survived as a research student this time, at the reason [ them ] for being safe now, there is completely nothing.

"I think that there is an announcement formal about them by the TOKYO DOME public performance to be held on August 24? the 26th.

Moreover, a possibility of the "studying-abroad program" which Mr. Yasushi Akimoto brought up suddenly that several unpopular members of what belongs to the teams K and B at present will proceed, and a hole will open on a point is also high.

Places to study abroad are 48 groups of Indonesia, China, and Taiwan.

regular members each one outside the circle is asked to take an early retirement in a selection general election, working for a long time -- well" (front -- said)

However, probably a thing tedious [ the surroundings ] may not be specially considered as a studying-abroad system etc., but just such each one having no chance of getting on also "may examine" in a certain form.

If the handshake session effect thins, CD sales will also fall off.
if I get Mr. Sponsor to do massive buying well, it will be able to reign over the higher rank of the Oricon ranking -- it will receive and ど and real popularity will be a virtual image completely.

A turn is indispensable also in order not to make a fan's heat cool down.

When it becomes so, it is that a scandal man-related [ like the Sashihara incident stopped at the water's edge until now ] whose fearful thing is comes out to a world.

# by hey_tokushima | 2012-08-07 14:41

Occupation 9 female pattern considered "To meet very much if you get married"

Good evening.

When it comes to marriage, the nine following patterns are whether to think.

There is surely even a pattern which will be referred to as meeting very much if the man who saw from the woman gets married (#^.^#)


Wed., May 16, 2012
NG pattern
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Marriage will also change a life according to a partner's occupation.

It seems that therefore, there is also an occupation which becomes negative implications when conscious of marriage.

then -- it is reference about the questionnaire to a sugoren" male reader this time -- "-- " -- if you get married -- very much -- so -- " -- I introduce the occupation " of the woman thought of.
..

[1] It is the "nurse" whose life seems to be irregular by a night shift.

" it is It does not suit a life time zone -- I am disagreeable right [ that ] -- " (the 20th generation male) -- etc. -- it seems that there are some men who feel a sense of crisis for a life rhythm to be disturbed by the night shift
But if it gets used, let's advertize that it can enjoy itself according to a device, as "lunch can be waited and carried out on weekdays of night shift dawn."

[2] "Beautician" who does not suit office workers with an ordinary holiday

There is also "what should just date when if it is not a Saturdays-and-Sundays rest" (the 20th generation male), and a man who is worried from a relations stage.

Although it is sad that there is little time to pass together, probably, it is one hand to produce a boyfriend's hairstyle in everyday life and to also make it think "It cannot make a living without this person."

[3] By the mouth, it can win absolutely and is the "lawyer" who is not likely to be.

There are some men who are pessimistic of "the hips are likely to be covered if it cannot quarrel and win" (bitter smile) (the 20th generation male), and their future plan.

It seems that it will become a pressure for a male if his wife is too strong.

Let's show our whole surface. [ different from work, such as talking slowly consciously, ]

[4] "Teacher" whose view seems to be hard

It is a case without an impression good for "he was poor at the school and I am likely to be scolded by something" (smile) (the 20th generation male), and the existence itself which are called a teacher.

There are many these types among the once poor men.

Let's let loose in rare cases, show and make it understand that he is an ordinary human being.

[5] "Model" which is likely to live a showy life

"The kana etc. in which the person who was present in the once gay world is not fit for marriage" (the 20th generation male) is a case which becomes cowardly about the everyday life of a model at not knowing.

even when it is showy a "cooking lover", "it be indoor in fact", etc. as for an occupation -- an idea -- each person.

If the figure of base is shown, doesn't misunderstanding solve?

[6] "Mass media relation" which seems to be busier than a general office worker

It seems that there are also "work being touch as deferment in definite aim in life and a home" (the 20th generation male) and a man that thinks that a home will be neglected only in a busy occupation.

How about advertizing [ that it is in need of neither that there is much income nor interesting subject etc. ] one's strong point?

[7] "Policeman" accompanying work in danger

There are some men who feel uneasy to professional danger, such as "anxious when his wife is dangerous work" (the 20th generation male).

If it explains the actual condition exactly that there is office work at its post which and has little danger etc., doesn't a few soften in a male's worries? [ the post ]

[8] "Flight attendant" among whom many opportunities of encounter are

There are some men frightened of "it is likely to be immediately thrown away by a beauty that there is also much encounter --" (the 20th generation male) and other males' shadow.

It seems that it falls into such an idea as the man who does not have confidence in his charm.

If it continues telling "He likes you better than whom [ in the world ]", it will send out to work with confidence.

[9] "Part-time jobber" in whom work does not become settled
"It is still touch as the inside of the search for self.

It seems that there are some men who realize just for a moment that the woman of part-time jobbers, such as " (the 10th generation male), still is not a respectable adult as it is even if he gets married.

Of course, it is satisfactory if "I would like to secure my time for realization of a dream" etc. has a reason to which it can be convinced.

On the contrary, probably, it is also one hand to advertize "the geniuses which become a housewife", such as a dab at cooking.

# by hey_tokushima | 2012-05-16 21:16